childhood and media

"Hi I am thanshika 11 yrs old.. I am going to dance for ringa ringa item song..pls vote for me"... how would u react if u a hear a chessy voice of a kid talking like a highly matured ''civilised'' citizen..

It is pathetic to watch 6 yrs old and 7 yrs old in glamour outfits performing third rated moves and expressions on tv...
 
This is how kids who cant think beyond chocolates, ice creams, homeworks and birthdays are exploited by the colorful make-believe fancy reality shows.
 The most dreadful part of such a bizarre destructive exploitation is the unusual hyper involvement of parents and their melo dramatic stunts that include shedding tears when the judges-from-heaven- people appreciate their wards as future bipasha, hot sexy number and other need-of-the-hour comments which wil fetch them bharat ratna kind of awards...

Is this all done for the stupid TRP ratings? Well it is...

Days r gone where children r treated as children having innocent smiles and sweet school days and holidays...
Now that they re treated as people having a competitve mentality and a kid is portrayed as a winner only if he or she is telecasted in a show and commented by dumbo public celebs....
Nobody knows how those kids r prepared enuf to face the future after being celebrated at such an early stage of life...

Pls my frnds advice ur loved people not to encourage such reality shows..

As for the consequences I need not tell u but it does really changes the very root of our future..

Be prepared for a future having kids and adults imprisoned by fake media publicity and drained creativity..

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women and chennai

Best outfit for working women(physical protection from run away hitters dashers smashers) 

As we all r aware that chennai is considered as a comparitively better safer city for women wen taking delhi, mumbai, kolkatta into account or atleast as far as i know i like chennai for many blind reasons being it my adopted hometown sorry homecity....
But there r lots of dirty dark side effects of being a woman(sadly not a girl as I am working and I am categorized under women) in any city in India for that case....
Some of the common pathetic issues met everyday or often but never unusual for any working women...

• Why is that atleast two helpage India kind of men hit on us ''UNKNOWINGLY'' in a week?
• Thanks to my backpack as it always serves as my physical barrier that prevents me from getting unknowingly dashed or hit by men who are of my dad's and grand dad's age.
• Only women get unwanted useless fwd msgs frm their higher officials even in sunday mornings...
• Families have a so called public opinion on women that working females r exposed to lots of men, distraction,money and parties...(but no one ever bothers that men too r exposed in a far more better rate to the above mentioned items(lots of women in this case)...)
• It is highly useless in bringing out bills and laws in the parliament for sexual harassment against women and women empowerment(almost endangered in our rural India) unless and untill women r accepted as equal partners for men(humanly impossible to accept by all our Indian men)
• But PWDVA (The Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act) and other bills that are recently promoted by the government is a good sign frm their side and I would be very happy on behalf of all women if its effectively implemented....
• And I am lucky enuf to have to some true frnds in men who respect my feelings and ideas and consider my blog too... and I hope this society allows me to have their frndship even after my marriage(This is another extreme difficulty met by women of this century where married men r acceptable if they have girl or women frnds but not the vice versa)....

my feedbacks

so this is it!

I have been getting good strong feedbacks on my first article and i really appreciate it!

But I am really surprised to see some of my friends who think abt every issue in a self centred perspective...
Maybe for few corporate people and intelligent college students facebook is handled in d right way.... but did anybody think of our indian school college adolescent teen kids...?
These kids r highly prone to ideas that make them believe they re special...and facebook is the key...
I ll delete my post wholeheartedly if somebody claims that none of the adolescent indian demographics r truly addicted to facebook for finding new unknown secret frnds...

my friends and facebook

Hi All!

Some of my frnds consider me as a boring not so modern narrow minded gal who does not show even d slightest interest in signing up for facebook!
This whole facebook crap has helped my sweet little technocrat frnds to visualise me as one girl who is ill in maintaining frnds network..
but trust me people i m in no way against my friends but totally against ur so called social networking thru facebook...
Its actually social suicide...
I dont invite arguements as this is my blog but i welcome healthy suggestions...
Three or four or five reasons y i think facebook is nonsense

• Its waste of time since most of the people u get linked in face book is sitting right next to u or in ur classroom where u daily meet them or in ur college or someone unknown which makes it even more worse...
• Some rare cases where u get thoroughly excited wen u meet ur school or ex college buddies but have no idea of wat to do after getting connected with them...(mere sharing, commenting, posting, tagging, scraping, blah blah blah leads to nothing but self advertisement and cheapest mode of heroism or herioinism)..
• U have lots of work to do rather u end up in draining ur imagination and creativity in posing exclusive photos for sole purpose of people commenting on ur new dog new shirt new pant new hair do and other unwanted essentials....
• Yes I accept facebook is a common site for sharing ur ideas and ur feelings but on what motive...9 out of 10 facebook users access facebook for a more decent and legalised method of self boasting and self propaganda...
• Boys and girls who have not even entered real life (college people i mean) talk abt life and philosophy and all matured topics which is utter real time comedy...
• This facebook is mandatory topic in any friends conversation which makes me feel "man y r my frnds fond of something that is completely useless"
• End of the day u feel completely happy after commenting ur frnds pics, recieving thought provoking, need of d hour suggestions for ur photos..
• I feel more sickening when u hear frm ur frnd or frnds that facebook is the only entertainment..LOLs...
• So guys come off it and just remember that the best reliable social networking is face to face conversation wit ur frnds and not FACEBOOK...
• As it sometimes hinders u frm real social interaction wit the people around u...